Writing

Novels, memoir and short fiction exploring complicated relationships, faith, belonging and love.

Anatomy of Compersion

A 92,000‑word literary novel about a woman, her bisexual husband, and his lover—asking whether love can stretch wide enough to include someone else’s happiness.

Unpriesting

A memoir navigating identity, faith, sexuality, and the long road to living truthfully.

Anthologies & Beyond

Published short fiction & essays in MagdaragatYay Queer All II, Beyond the Concert Hall, and more.

Gandia Media

Stories that Connect. Strategies that Deliver.

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  • Turning 55

    Turning 55

    I turned fifty-five today. There was no dramatic reveal, no trumpet blast, no sudden wisdom descending like a clean sentence. I woke up the same way I’ve woken up for years now—aware of my body before my thoughts, aware of time before ambition. My knees negotiated with the floor. My breath found its rhythm. The…

  • What the guitar knows

    What the guitar knows

    I still remember the first time I really heard Walang Hanggang Paalam—not as background music, not as something drifting from a radio, but as a wound opening. The title itself feels like a contradiction: an endless goodbye. How can a farewell have no end? And yet, that is exactly how some relationships, such as friendships,…

  • What it means (and doesn’t mean) to be a full-time writer

    What it means (and doesn’t mean) to be a full-time writer

    I’ve been a full-time writer for a few months now, and I still hesitate to say it out loud. Not because it isn’t true, but because the phrase comes loaded with assumptions I don’t recognize as mine: freedom, abundance, clarity, discipline perfected at last. It suggests a clean break, a decisive crossing from one life…

  • When love is not neutral

    When love is not neutral

    Why The Leaves Still Fallow matters right now Some books arrive at exactly the moment they’re needed—not because they predict the world, but because they refuse to look away from it. The Leaves Still Fallow is an anthology of queer love stories, poems, and essays. On the surface, that sounds gentle, even familiar. But this…

  • The work of writing

    The work of writing

    On reward, exhaustion, and choosing to stay I’ve been a full-time writer for about three months now. By “full-time,” I mean I no longer have a full-time job—not because I chose some romantic leap of faith, but because I was laid off. The organization I worked for decided my contribution was no longer needed, and…

  • Tap water not included: notes from a parched tourist

    Tap water not included: notes from a parched tourist

    This isn’t my first trip to Europe. I’ve learned many things over the years: trains run on time, pastries are a legitimate breakfast, and museums will take your breath away. And I’ve also long known this unshakable truth: Europe does not like giving adults tap water.Not automatically. Not cheerfully. Not without a small emotional journey.…

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